Advertisements

Love + Relationships | Does Your Ex Ever Think About You?


Breaking up is never easy, or so the song goes. There is always more than a single reason for a breakup. And it might not be only one half of the partnership that is entirely to blame. Sometimes things don’t work out. Sometimes someone does something that the other person can’t forgive or forget. But can your ex forget about you? If you’re wondering this, then you obviously can’t forget about them.

Knowing your ex is pining for you, or at least turning their attention to you is an enormous ego boost. But don’t forget, this can be kinda creepy too. Perhaps it all depends on the circumstances of the breakup. If you find that you really want your ex to be thinking about you, then chances are you’re not over it. Worse still, you’re not letting yourself move on.

Love is a funny thing. It can leave you heartbroken, and it can cause you to miss a person so much it hurts. But if that relationship wasn’t healthy for you both, then pining about it is even less so. Of course, if you’ve only just broken up, you need to give yourself time to get out of the habit of being with someone. It’s a culture shock to be on your own again. You need that period of adjustment.

So is your ex thinking about you? Is he reading everything he can find about how to get your ex back? Are you? If you’ve given yourself a couple of weeks, but everything is still raw, then you might want to talk to someone about it. Perhaps you can think back to the breakup itself. Did you see it coming, or was it a heat-of-the-moment argument that sparked it all off? Had you been happy, or were the cracks starting to appear? Define the reason for the breakup before you decide if you want to try and fix it.

If you do want to try and fix things, you need to think about the damage that has been done. Are you ever going to be able to forgive? And are you willing to forget? It’s not good to raise old issues next time you argue. Infidelity, in particular, is a really tough one to get over. Did you ever gather proof of him cheating on you? Did you ever ask him why? Sometimes it’s best just to let people go that have hurt you this bad.

Of course, there are some people that you should never bother with again. Anyone that has physically hurt you should be left on the sidelines. If they’re still thinking of you, then you need to get away from them, go someplace safe, and report them. There is never a valid reason for them doing that to you. It’s a good idea to seek support and counseling if this has happened to you, regardless of how well you’re coping with it.

If a relationship just fizzled out because the timing wasn’t great, perhaps now is a good time to find out if your ex is thinking about you. Do you have an old flame you never quite forgot about? And would you make contact with them now?

Advertisements

Smile Like You Mean It! The Oral Health Guide You Won’t Want To Ignore


Most women work hard to ensure they have the best smile possible. They brush their teeth after meals, and always use an antibacterial mouthwash. Unfortunately, that isn’t enough to create the desired results. Our lifestyles mean that many ladies damage their teeth every single day by smoking or drinking coffee. So, if you want to […]

Music + Entertainment | What Makes Music So Good To Listen To?


Everyone loves a good bit of music no matter who they are, even if they don’t listen often. We hear it in the background of movies, series, and adverts. We hear it as often as we want with our own personal playlists or bang on the wall when the neighbor is too loud with theirs. […]

Lifestyle | Forget New Years! Try A Summertime Resolution Instead


People treat new year’s as if it is the only time of year that you can make a life-changing resolution. That means that for the rest of the year, you could be putting off doing something that could potentially massively improve your life. The truth is that winter is not a great time to be […]

Sports | Exclusive Coverage: NBA Stars Durant, Harden + Curry Go 2K15 Uncensored‏ [VIDEOS]


NBA 2K15 UNCENSORED was a free-flowing conversation with four of the NBA’s top stars Kevin Durant, James Harden, Stephen Curry and Anthony Davis moderated by Ernie Johnson. They covered several topics in the NBA, pop culture, and additional sports-related content. Highlights included Durant talking about leaving USA basketball, James Harden declaring himself the best all-around player […]

Lifestye | Dress Your Gifts for Every Occasion


Giving gifts is a pleasure for many, but making it look personal and sophisticated can be a challenge. You can get the best gift item for your friend or spouse, but if it looks as if it was carelessly wrapped and thrown together in a hurry, you will fail to impress. There are great ways […]

Love + Relationships | Does Your Ex Ever Think About You?


Breaking up is never easy, or so the song goes. There is always more than a single reason for a breakup. And it might not be only one half of the partnership that is entirely to blame. Sometimes things don’t work out. Sometimes someone does something that the other person can’t forgive or forget. But […]

Music + Entertainment | What Makes Music So Good To Listen To?


Everyone loves a good bit of music no matter who they are, even if they don’t listen often. We hear it in the background of movies, series, and adverts. We hear it as often as we want with our own personal playlists or bang on the wall when the neighbor is too loud with theirs. […]

Smile Like You Mean It! The Oral Health Guide You Won’t Want To Ignore


Most women work hard to ensure they have the best smile possible. They brush their teeth after meals, and always use an antibacterial mouthwash. Unfortunately, that isn’t enough to create the desired results. Our lifestyles mean that many ladies damage their teeth every single day by smoking or drinking coffee. So, if you want to […]

%d bloggers like this: